What we believe about ourselves is usually reflected in our self-esteem. Positive beliefs make us feel good about ourselves and raise our self-esteem. Negative beliefs make us feel bad about ourselves and lower our self-esteem. Write about some positive beliefs you have about yourself and do the same for some negative beliefs you have about yourself. Would your friends agree with your lists? Where do your negative beliefs come from? How accurate are they? How important are they? What can you do to get rid of them?
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I perceive myself as a kind, smart, outgoing & awesome person. My negative beleifs about me would be that i'm short, but then i am the youngest of the grade so that is a good enough reason for me... I think my friends would agree with this list because they are always saying that im too nice. :) Sometimes when people say things, it does make me believe that it is true, but then i catch myself most of the time and correct it, so i can act like me. From what i get the descriptions are pretty accurate and i wouldn't want them to change.
-jessica s- :)
- i am suprised that nobody commented yet!! im first :D
I believe my self to be athletic, creative and outspoken, and I watch Wordgirl, Cyberchase and Arthur everyday if I can. Negative beliefs about myself are that I'm not pretty, my hair is horrible, I always have a softball tan (where only your knees are tan because of shorts sliders and the long socks)I can be really really thick headed, I have these horrible mood swings where I'm insanely hyper and then I'm all sad and upset and I still love the Backyardigans. :) I don't think my friends would agree with all the negative stuff, but I think the positive stuff they'd agree with. I don't know where all the negative stuff came from. I guess I just feel like I don't live up to all the convaluted stick figure standards of modern society. I see myself that way, and that way only so I don't know how accurate they are. None of them are as important to me as my friends and my softball team and my swimming friends and my Senseis in karate. TO get rid of them I just tell myself that I'm me and I'm not going to change for anyone.
~Jules :)
OK so here are my positive beleifs.....i think i am funny,athletic,pretty nice person,i smile alot, and a pretty dang good friend.
And now here come my lovely negative belifs
i think i dont wear the "right" clothes,say the right things all the time,not very bright all the time,and too skinny
And ussually i dont thik about my negative beleifs but this post really made me think that i carry these things along with me everywhere and its not good. I really would hope that my friends wouldnt agree with my negative list and maybe even my positive list and tell me what i am and how others see my because in the end who you are is how others see you and thats the truth. I think my negative beleifs come from my peers and teachers mostly because i can tell you that my family never judges excpet on occasion with grades. I really dont know how accurate my beleifs are but I hope someone can tell me and really i dont think my negative belifs should matter at all but they always find away to come back to me once i get rid of them;i dont know how to get rid of these beleifs soooo if you wanna help me out take your best shot!
-jessica packard-
Jules I just need to say that I don't know how you think your not pretty because you are and your smile.......like I want your smile!!!it's so...nice
please don't let your negative beleifs get to you because u know you are strong and I don't want those beleifs to bream you
~jessica Packard~
the bream up there is supposed to say break...sorry
-jessica packard-
for me i feel like im funny, semi atheltic,smart about somethings, pretty good at building and taking apart stuff..
the bad things about me is...im stubborn, easily anoyyed,i get mad about little things that shouldent matter, i sometimes lie...i dont do the same things other people do(bikeing) i was to lazy to play baseball or football or anything along those lines..people say im mean to certain people even though i try to be nice its just some people take jokes to far...i take jokes to far(if i ever hurt anyones feelings please just tell me..i dont try to be mean) im a obnoxious person sometimes..very messy
i guess these beliefs come from people telling me that sometimes jokingly sometimes not. i try to stay down to earth because i dont want to come off cocky to anyone im just a guy who sees life as your only going to live once so live it up...
i have tried to change lately and my friends have said that i have deffiantly changed for the better and im just trying to be me...no masks, no covering up, just being me
John Magyar
I think that i am nice, friendly,helpful, polite, reliable, happy, and a good person. my negative things are my hair is too thick, i hate my teeth, i want to be more confident in myself,i cry easily, i can be a drma queen at times, and i can say things without thinking first. i think that my friends would agree with the positves and probably not the negatives. but i dont know if they would just say that to make me feel better or they actually meaning it. so tell me what you think. I dont think that they dont really matter that much so i try to just forget about that but when people bring them up to my face, they come right back up and like i said, i cry. Like about my teeth. When i got made fun of in school about my teeth being like not all the same shape or something i came home crying to my mom begging her to let me get them reshaped. Of course shes not going to let me so im just trying to overcome it. And i dont really know how to get rid of them so like jess packard said, i need some advice.
*bridget*
ok. first off i just wannna say that i think this is the best blog yet because it really makes you think and i think i have discovered a lot more about me.
My positive beliefs:I am nice, have a great family, smart(at times), and funny(to people who know me)
heres where we get to the real list. my negatives: I am not pretty. I am not smart all the time,i get irritated fast, people say im bipolar and have ocd. I have no self esteem. I am not athletic. i am scared of everything including people, life but mostly myself. I hate my hair. i hate my teeth. i have no life. i hardly have any friends (maybe im not friendly enough) i could loose a couple pounds.. i put myslef down constintly. I am scared to talk sometimes because of what might come out by accident, i am nervous all the time, and many more... that i cant name.
I think that my friends would agree with the positive things but not with the negative at all. and i dont know how to fix my "problems"
~Autumn <3
AUTUMN GORMAN!!!!
You are beautiful you have one of the greatest smiles i have ever seen in my life like you always seem happy and really if you dont like your teeth you will get you braces off sooner or later so you can count on that! and you know you can count on me if you wanna talk sometime autumn you seem like an amazing person and you have amazing friends and thats really good
-jessica packard-
ok so here are my positives: im sweet,friendly,polite,honest,reliable, sometimes sensible,helpful,caring and loving
and then the negatives:i can be stubborn and bossy sometimes, im not pretty, i hate my big teeth, i could lose a few pounds or more....
my legs are to muscular, my hair doesnt part right, my nail polish can never manage to stay on more than 3 days without beginning to chip, my eyes are oddly shaped, my feet are two small and im just an all around small person and i don't have a life because it is all taken up by working at the farm. i practically live there.
I think my friends would agree with my list for positives because i show all of them constantly but my negatives i try to hide as much as i can.
~Veronica Lee Browne~
and i dnt know how to get rid of my negatives. anyone have any ideas?
~Veronica Lee Browne~
I see my self as an athletic kid, im a good friend, i think i can be funny at sometimes, i think im a caring person. Im definetly immature, not all the time but i mean im a kid. And im not upset about it at all.
Now i think i can be real stupid at times. LIke i say some pretty stupid things at the wrong time.In better terms i dont think before i speak. Like there was a situation in Camp Ocky. and i really dont wanna say it but like i was like wow did i just say tht.
IM kinda in like a writers block. or a blog entry block? I cant think really of much elses to say.. srry
_Eric
Veronica your so pretty and you don't need to lose any weight!Everyone has negatives!!
Leah O.
My positives- I like to think myself as a friendly person, helpful to people, smile a lot, funny, and a good friend(:
&My Negatives-
WELL, I'm not the pretty, I can take thinks really personally, over think a lot, I think when people give me a compliment that there just being sarcastic, I hate my hair, I always think people are talking about me, I put myself down a lot, LACK IN CONFIDENCE, not a lot of people like me (for a reason..that I have no idea what it is), something I think my friends just hang out with me because they pity me, and I tend to think that nothing can go right for me.
Wow...That's kind of sad...
I think my friends would agree with some of them on there and others...they would probably beat me. (:
The negative beliefs come from past situations I have been in. When other kids do things or say things it makes me think how long it will go on for and all these questions pop up in my head...and this is where the over thinking comes into play. Then, when it's in there...it just stays.
My self esteem gets higher whenever I have a good day. Like Last week, my was in such a good mood because nothing bad had happened, which made my self esteem higher. Also my friends make it higher as well, they make me feel like they WANT to be around me and not embarrassed which makes me feel good. However, when I was having that good week, the whole time I was thinking "Something bads gonna happen..Im Hayley..Its gotta be soon." Which does ruin it a little, but then...I remember my friends and I just can't help to smile(:
-Hayley
Also...Jules, Bridget, Autumn. You guys are sooo pretty, I envy you. haha. You DEFINITLY don't have to be worried about that area(:
I think my positives are making others laugh, trying to be nice to others at all times,happy,and polite.My negatives are my legs and arms, I have a low self esteem sometimes, and I don't know how to stick up for myself.I think my friends would agree with my postives, and the negative that I need to learn how to stick up for myself.I think everyone has negatives and there not going to go away like if you think you would be better off skinny and you lose weight your weight is the only thing that has changed not your happiness.I am happy being me!!
Loattes
veronica,
you are nice how you are... you are so kind and are always there, a great friend. And also it is good to be muscular,because you never know when you need to use them... haha :)and your are not a small person, like look at me!! Also about you working all lonely at the horse farm, i will come and work with you!.. hopefully soon...i need to make some mula & plus it sounds like fun :)~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
-jessica s- :)
Hayley you are really pretty and nice!! Don't doubt that!!
Leah O.
In my negatives, "I think my friends just hang out with me because they pity me" I meant to put sometimes before itt. But sometimes, it not a lot, just when im having a bad day.
-Hayley
Eric I think everyone says stuff they don't really mean.Happens to me ALOT!!
Leah O.
Some positives i see in myself is i'm humble, athletic, have a good sence of outdoors and nature, i can be smart if i want to be, i'm good at understanding how things work, i'm a nice friend.
Some negatives are i think im to hard on myself sometimes. For example-If im playing baseball and i strikeout or miss a groundball i'll let it sit on my shoulders sometimes and let it ruin the rest of my day, also to try not to be as mean to my bro, sometimes i'm lazy and never feel like doing anything.
I think my friends and family see almost exactly what i just explained up above. I really dont care how others see me because i think i'm perfect just the way i am.
-ROBERT-
My positives: im smart, im athletic, im a pretty good kid, im funny, and uhh i am good at listening to people's problems
My negatives: im abnoxious, im afraid of snake and spiders(if that even is a negative?), i watch wayyyy to much tv, im a weekling, and i can be rude at times
I would believe that my friends would agree with my positives and negatives. My negatives probably come from my friends and myself. i think that these negative beliefs are accurate, and they arent important to me because i dont really care about how people percieve me. And i dont think i need to get rid of them because they are what make me, me.
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pretty pissed not a lot of people commented
Berto uhhh i think every 8th grader is lazy, just saying.
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jess p,
thannk you so much. its sooo nice of you to be there for me when we have never had one conversation...ever. so thats really cool! and thanks for the compliments too :)
i was sooo excited about this blogg topic. how come no oness commenting?? :(
~Autumn <3
I beilive i have some postives like, im friendly, athletic, funny, kinda smart, i guess. lol. i try and make me laugh.
My negatives are im abnoxious, stubborn, not pretty and maybe could lose a few pounds, scared of life including people,get nervous very easily and sometimes afraid to talk to others because im afriad of what i might say or if i dont say enough.
I think my friends will agree with my posittives btu maybe not my negatives. and i dont really know how to solve them or feel free to try and help.
-nichole(:
Thnx jess and leah for the compliments i really appreciate it:) and jess i can give you the phone number to the farm and my 4h club if ud like :)
-veronica lee browne-
AUTUMN GORMAN!!!
your the most beautiful girl i ever saw, your funny outgoing and always know how to make me laugh when i dont even feel like smiling, i love you for it!!
and hun dont worry your braces will come off and you will be even more beautiful( dont think its possible) i love you bud!!
-nichole(:
nichole, for being afraid of people, you should even waste your time with people you're afraid of, either you should just stick it to the man(i got that from school of rock) or just absolutly ignore them and in your mind take them of this planet.
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nichole,
yours was exactly the same as mine. haha. and ily too. thanks for the self esteem boost? haha.
~Autumn <3
thankss dan that helped alot. ill use itt.
-nichole(:
oh and autumn my comment above to nichole also goes to you!
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autumn,
haha good im gald and haha i didnt even read yours until now.
-nichole(:
well my positives are i think im pretty confident, apprently im handsome says people, im funny, smart wen i want to be, thats about it. for my negatives i have a lot i think well for one i dont think im handsome i uh i think im stupid im smart wen i want to be but thats not often and i just think down on myself alot, too much.
-austin
thanks dann. thats super nice advice:) and i like austin's post too:)
~Autumn<33
thanks Autumn but i disagree with yours you have one of the best smiles and your pretty and your not fat, your not even close to that.
-austin
thanks austin :)
~Autumn<3
ook so positives: i think i can be funny at times, laugh alot, caring, athletic, and outgoing. Negatives: i can be annoying, dont think im that pretty, im really...loud. well not really in school but around my friends and at home i am. my teeth are like..fat. my nose is messed up. i dont even know what happened.. i think i might have broken it. I dont think that my friends would agree with my negatives, but hopefully they would agree with the positives. I dont think that negative beliefs come from yourself. i think people get so caught up in what they hear other people say. To get rid your negative beliefs i just think that you.. shouldnt believe them. You have to think more positive about yourself. Your positive beliefs are what can make you a better person. Negatives just tear you down.
- h. garthwaite
austin
your smart even when you dont know it. you give some of the best advice ive ever gotten.(:
-nichole(:
DISAGREEMENT, hailey you are very pretty, and being loud well i wouldnt really call that a negative, and not that i check out your nose everyday but i dont thinki that it's messed up.
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hailey i disagree with your your negatives i mean you may not consider me a friend but i really disagree all the girls are pretty and havve something to offer and you should always kow that no matter wat you have to keep that with you.
-austin
austin,
dnt think down on yourself! ive known you for years i dnt know if you remember but we used to be really good friends a while ago. ok for one dnt even say your not handsome you are far from not being it. (if tht makes sense haha) and you are really smart ive heard things that you say and most of them have a lot of thought behind them.
~Veronica Lee Browne~
hailey you are very pretty, and being loud is not what i call a negative. And also not like i check out your nose or anything but i dont think that it is messed up.
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thank you veronica thats means a lot and yes i will always remember wen we were friends good times.
-austin
thanks guyss. and a-dawwgg yes i consider you a friend.
hailey g
sweet stufff h dawgg and to tell ya ive never relized how chill you were and thats another positive your cool and laid back and i like that alot about you.
-austin
Every girl in this grade in pretty, just in a lot of different ways! So none of you should say that you arent pretty it's ridiculous(spelling?) but for realz you're all pretty just like mr g said.
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austin,
good im glad it means alot :) haha remember the water gun fights? lol good timessss. wow i just realized we never tlk nemore its kinda sad
~Veronica Lee Browne~
yea past times it is sad that we dont talk. and dan great point i agree very much with you all the girls are pretty but they all show it in different ways. and all you girls have great hearts and are all nice and sweet girls.
-austin
austin is there a reason we are like the only guys talking?
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PS btw: word up to austin on the great hearts and nice sweet girls in this grade. Cause it's all absolutley true.
austin
thanks(: i dont agree with your post your very smart you just show it differently sometimes. youve given me the best advice ive ever gotten.
-nichole(:
i never realized how sweet and thoughtful the guys in this class are :) its surprising but iin a good way :)
~Autumn <333
dan i really dont kow ha why were the only ones talking but it feels great just complimenting some one instead of giving some one a hard time you kow? but i really think this is a great blog because it made me think alot and look in side myself and look at myself and i just want to say thank you to mr g and ms carr for that.
-austin
Some positives are that I am, artistict, athletic, smart, smiley, bubbly (most of the time),funny at times, I like to be the leader not the follower, and outgoing. I also think that I am awesome hehe.(: I don't really know other than that. Now my negatives are, I get irritated/annoyed really fast and that brings out my dark side hehe. I am not always nice, I am mean at times because I just get fed up with alot of things. Also my hieght thats one thing that I CAN NOT stand getting made fun of and I think thats about it. I think my freinds would most likely agree with my list because they know how I am, well they should atleast alittle, hehe. Anyways my negatives aren't really coming from anywhere I just notice these things about me, but there is one thing just because I am small. I already know that I am small, you don't have to tell me or remind me because by now, it's just getting old and annoying. I think I am pretty acurate, I am not really sure. If anyone would like to answer that for me I would be more then glad (: including my negatives though and I won't mind AT ALL!!! I think they are pretty important because they describe me, my personality, the person I am. Also, the one or two things I would like to change are my meaness and me getting irrataiteed verry easily. I feel bad when I get mad and mean, although alot of teachers don't see it in me, its just something that comes out like the tiger in me, hahaha. All I want to do is just be a bit nicer but still have a backbone to stand up for myself thats all. How to change it? I really truelly don't know the answer to that one.
~Theresa
autumn guys have hearts too hahahah
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I agree with you Autumn. 100%. all you guys are really sweet(:
-nichole(:
dans right autumn haha and thanks nichole that means alot coming from you ive known you for ever now and that just means alot thank you
-austin
Your Welcome Austin, No problem anytime. you and dan and all the guy in ms carr and mr g's class are really sweet and this year you all have shown the girls how much you atcually are.
-nichole(:
bravo to dan and austin. bothi doing a great job complimenting people and stuff. nicee.
h garth
aww. i didnt mean it like that, i just havent gotten to know any of the guys in this school in the time ive been here. :(
~Autumn <3
i dont wanna just be sending out compliments the whole time but austin and dan way to be the guys to step up and do the blog props to you guys!! the guys in our class have....blossomed lets say from last year to a whole new maturity level and i realized that you guys all have great hearts so keep up the good work guys.
-jessica packard-
jessie says hi haha shes a pain but its ok(:
-nichole and jessie
Autumn i was talking to you(:
-nichole(:
im sorry everybody my sister wrote that ignore it please. i wasnt anywhere near.
-nichole(:
hahah autumn no need to like apologize i was just kidding around about the guys have hearts. but i mean we do.
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if you guys ever get the chance you guys should go on youtube or something and type in one tree hill pictures of you..actually the picture up top for the post is froim that episode of one tree hill and it is a really good episode and the message in it is really great so check it out whenever
-jessica packard-
nichole,
jess... what will we do with her?? haha
~Autumn<3
i agree with you jess, i watch that show every monday it has a moral every episode.
-nichole(:
yeah, Mr G. please delete it.
thanks(:
-nichole(:
did i miss something? what is mr g deleting?
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I was away and my sister posted something. so i would like him to delete.
-nichole(:
Thank you Jess that means alot and so do all the other tuings the girls are saying and h dawg thank you it means alot especially for people I didn't really kow until this year and it's been a great exprience getting to kow you two. You girls and all of you are strong and can dowatever you put your minds to and for all the girls who ae afriad to take your masks off sooner or later it will come off hopefully and I've went by this saying if your true friends won't accept you for you there not your true friends and never let anything hold you back I did before and I felt like a lost puppie dog in the middle of a city. Austin
I see myself as smart but not in books... but in common sence, caring, happy and lucky. My friends know how obnoxious and hyper I can be and they don't really think much of it because it's me, and they always know when somethings bothering with out even saying anything. However, when im mad or upset I get annoyed with every little thing that goes on... which is badddd. I start taking things out on other people and giving attitude. I think that everybody has opinions about themselves... wether they're good or bad. I know for a fact that everybody pulls themselves down, but I'm not really sure why. We all have something special about ourselves, even if it's just making people laugh. You don't have to be perfect at everything to succeed in being yourself. I wish I could say that everybody will get over those negative things, because it doesn't help but we probably won't. That's because of the people surrounding us, we're all ourselves in mr.g and ms.carrs class but once we step out it's right back to the "real" world. Plus most of the time the things we think about ourself isn't seen by other people. But, when a physical feature is pointed out... they take that one flaw and make it the biggest deal. Now that can lower a self esteem, because everyone wants to "fit in". The truth is, EVERYONES trying to fit in.
-Alexis(:
By the wayyyyy... Hailey, Hayley, Autumn, and Austin... I'm sorry but you people are crazy!!!!!!! Hailey, your sooo pretty and your the kind of girl every guy would chase afterrr. Hayley, your prettty too and one of the nicest people in the grade... you don't judge people and that's the best quality a person could havee. Autumn, your not ugly and you have a smile that is shown across the room which is a greaaaat thing! Austin, oh Austin... hahaha you may not try hard in school sometimes but you are always there for people... no matter who it is and no matter how well you know them your always willing to listen. We love you for thattt! Everybody has something special about themselves and I'm suprised some of you guys said the stuff you diddd. But, then again... I can't say I haven't said some pretty negative things about myself. :P
-Alexis(:
I think some positive things about me are is that im athletic,i am easy to be freinds with, i am kinda funny,and i think i am pretty nice person for the most part.
For the negative i think i can make really stupid choices when im with my friends, i say alot of things before i realize what i am saying. i can be loud/abnoxious. And thats about
all i can think of right now
-ryan m.
I see myself as a good artist and creative and fun person. Some negative beliefs that I have about myself would probably be that I'm weird or out of the ordinary. Whatever you want to call it, I get that idea from some people in this grade and sometimes it is even projected through my parents.
~Jon H.
alexis! woww thank youu
-hailey
I think that I am a very nice person, I talk to everyone, i'm athletic, can be funny,and i am a good student. The bad things about me are that i can be quiet at times and do stupid things at times. I dont really know what my friends think about me but i think they would agree with me.
-*Ryan Szelc*-
I think that I am a very nice person, I talk to everyone, i'm athletic, can be funny,and i am a good student. The bad things about me are that i can be quiet at times and do stupid things at times. I dont really know what my friends think about me but i think they would agree with me.
-*Ryan Szelc*-
ooops it posted two
-*Ryan Szelc*-
Some positive beliefs that i have about myself are that I'm smart, funny, kind, and have great friends. Some negative beliefs that i have about myself though are that i am not confident in myself and i take in to heart to much what people say about me. I definitely think that my friends would agree with my list. Honestly, i think that i get my negative beliefs from people in our grade. People have said stuff about me that i sometimes take to heart and then i think about it and just think how i have to change that, but i really don't know where i got my low confidence factor. I think that they are pretty accurate beliefs. I think they are pretty important to get rid of. I don't want to always be thinking about what people say about me, i need to just get over that and forget about it. And with my low confidence... i need to build more confidence. To get rid of these negative beliefs i think i need to switch it around and have high confidence and not care what people say about me.
~Jackie
Jess,
I know I'm not a close friend of yours, but we still talk. I totally agree with your list and I think that you are correct... your other friends will agree with it as well. And you are not too short. Sometimes I wish I was shorter because I'm tired of being tall haha! And your friends are right, you are too nice... but thats a good thing!
Sorry Jess that was Jackie
Bridget,
You are right! I agree with your positives, but i disagree with your negatives haha. Your hair is always so perfect, your so lucky, your teeth are really pretty, i mean your one of the few people who hasn't had to have braces. So you were right haha... I'm a friend and i don't agree with your negatives haha!!!
~JACKIE
There are positive and negative beliefs that i see about myself. To start with the positive, I am a happy person, I have great friends, I am friendly, and I am pretty smart. Now for the NEGATIVES, I have too thin hair, it never goes the way i want it(my hair i mean), I have very low confidence, and like Bridget, sometimes I blurt out things without thinking about it, which gets annoying. I think that my friends would agree with all my positives, and maybe some parts of the negatives, I don't really know. But I can deffinetely change this if i really try. I would much rather have higher confidence, but idk if i can change my hairs thickness haha!
P.S. oh and i was the one who commented on Jess' reponse and didn't sign
~Jackie
whoops sorry posted two b/c i didnt think the other one posted
~Jackie
Autumn and Hailey, you guys are both beautiful, and you guys should know that. Same thing to every other girl and guy up here who don't think they're good looking. Hailey, yeah your nose has a bump. But that marks you as Hailey Garthwaite, and you wouldn't be yourself if you weren't loud well once again you just would be my same best friend!
Well for me my positives: I think I'm pretty decent at soccer, I can be funny at times, I'm caring, and I'd say im a nice girl. For my negatives: I hold back sometimes, I shy away when i want to be outgoing, I dont find myself pretty, I dont like my eyes (i think they are too dark)..., and I don't think before i talk sometimes. I would hope that my friends would agree with my lists, because i think they are pretty accurate. My negative beliefs, well i think i judge myself too much. For some reason I tend to put myself down and only focus on the negatives. I think i should start looking at the positive side of me instead of emphasizing the negatives in my mind.
emilee(:
Jon the fact that you are different is what makes you you. I mean its no fun to be just like everyone else, its great to be different and i love that you are out of the ordinary as you sayyyy!
emilee(:
Autumn and Hailey, you guys are both beautiful, and you guys should know that. Same thing to every other girl and guy up here who don't think they're good looking. Hailey, yeah your nose has a bump. But that marks you as Hailey Garthwaite, and you wouldn't be yourself if you weren't loud well once again you just would be my same best friend!
Well for me my positives: I think I'm pretty decent at soccer, I can be funny at times, I'm caring, and I'd say im a nice girl. For my negatives: I hold back sometimes, I shy away when i want to be outgoing, I dont find myself pretty, I dont like my eyes (i think they are too dark)..., and I don't think before i talk sometimes. I would hope that my friends would agree with my lists, because i think they are pretty accurate. My negative beliefs, well i think i judge myself too much. For some reason I tend to put myself down and only focus on the negatives. I think i should start looking at the positive side of me instead of emphasizing the negatives in my mind.
emilee(:
For the negatives, I always think i'm fat, I take critism wayyy to much, I can be really annoying, I'm not pretty, I am the most uncoordinated person alive I must trip like 495893 times a day just by tripping over my own feet, allot of little things annoy me, I make habits of things easily and not always good habits, I keep things bottled up inside, I change how I act because of what other people don't like, I'm more dependant on the people I hang out with then I'd like to be, I don't always make the best decesions. For the positives, When I'm in a good mood I can make people laugh really easily, I'm like obsessive with cleaning witch is good and bad, and I can hide my emotions almost all the time.
K.Siggy
Emilee, are you out of your minddddd! Your just like Hailey with thinking your not pretty, and franklyyyyy I don't approve! Your gorgiousss and you shouldn't put yourself down like that. Hmmmm... and I don't agree you are shy when you want to be outgoing. Your veryyyy outgoing and thats the Emilee we all know. The Emilee that I see everydayyyy is energetic, always thinking of other people before yourself and the best thing is that you don't care what people think. Well, at least that's what I thinkkk! If I hear one more girl say they don't find themselves pretty I am going to personally slap them across the faceee haha.
-Alexis(:
Emilee, are you out of your minddddd! Your just like Hailey with thinking your not pretty, and franklyyyyy I don't approve! Your gorgiousss and you shouldn't put yourself down like that. Hmmmm... and I don't agree you are shy when you want to be outgoing. Your veryyyy outgoing and thats the Emilee we all know. The Emilee that I see everydayyyy is energetic, always thinking of other people before yourself and the best thing is that you don't care what people think. Well, at least that's what I thinkkk! If I hear one more girl say they don't find themselves pretty I am going to personally slap them across the faceee haha.
-Alexis(:
Emilee I know that we are not that close but I think we have gotten to know eachother in cheerleading and your positives are so true!! BUT FOR THE NEGATIVES you are SO pretty and not to mention outgoing.You spiced up cheerleading and made it so much fun!!!!Your eyes are really unique and make you you!!!!
Leah O.
Kelsey you are also soo pretty and not fat AT ALL!! When we were running in gym today you didn't trip once!!You are such a nice girl and a really cool person to hang out with!!
Loattes!!
awwh shuckkks weenieee!! heheh thats alexis just for the record....KELSEEYYY!! you aree sooooo preeettyyyy and you are most deffinetly not fat. AND FOR TRIPPING! well we are on the same boat there i can't walk two feet without wiping out hahha but hey thats just us and its not so badddd(:
emilee(:
I dont think my comments posted before but I said how pretty and nice Emilee was and how she spiced cheerleading up and made it SO much fun!! You are one of the most outgoing people I know.Your eyes are unique and they make you you!!!! Kelsey I said you are not fat at all and beautiful!! You didn't trip today in gym class!!:)
Loattes
Kelsey, your beautifullllll! I warned the next girl who said they weren't pretty that I'd slap them personally... I'll let you slide haha. But, you really need to stop worrying about the small things because your one of the people somebody should look up tooooo. Your strong, pretty, funny, outgoing most of the time and very easy to trust. Now, one of your positives isn't really positive... holding in your emotions is neverrrr a good thing to do. It bottles things up and if that ever happens you know you've got me and everybody else to talk to... and we'lll hellppppp because we love you so dearlyyy haha(:
p.s. I'm with Emileeee, I trip every day over my own feeet... infact today I did and Mr.M saw me and laughhhed!
-Alexis(:
Kelsey, your beautifullllll! I warned the next girl who said they weren't pretty that I'd slap them personally... I'll let you slide haha. But, you really need to stop worrying about the small things because your one of the people somebody should look up tooooo. Your strong, pretty, funny, outgoing most of the time and very easy to trust. Now, one of your positives isn't really positive... holding in your emotions is neverrrr a good thing to do. It bottles things up and if that ever happens you know you've got me and everybody else to talk to... and we'lll hellppppp because we love you so dearlyyy haha(:
-Alexis(:
wow thank you sooo much leah that means soo muccchhh(:
emilee(:
emilee
your so so so so pretty. and your eyes are so pretty. and you make social studies less boring. and you put up with me meowing and singing the perry song<333
ksiggy
Emilee i dont kow how you dont see your self as pretty. you and all the others girls in the grade are pretty and you are pretty in many ways. but you may not think your out going but i think you are. we all may need to work on our masks and all but you of all people are great and you have a great heart. and alexis thank you that means alot coming from you being my little sister and all... saying the types of things you say to me. and alexis you have a good heart as well.
-austin
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