Do you become easily jealous of others accomplishments (brother, sister, friends)? How can you turn jealousy into joy?
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No i dont ever get jealous of my sister or friends. I am me and knowone can take that away from me. I get jealous of some of my own accomplishments and want to do better then i did before.
Yes sometimes i become easily jealous of people. When people talk about what mopeds or dirt bikes there getting it makes me a little angry. A good way to get rid of jealousy is to think about what you have that others might be jealous of.Or you could just say "good for him" and not let it bother you.
i become very jelious if somebody gets something before I do that i want. It almost bothers. And than the worst part is when they bragg/or are just saying it over and over to you. What i would try to get them to shut up or just try and appericate it with them
i must say that i dont get jealous very often. If one of my friends is really good at something that i'm not, i guess i get a little jealous of their ability to do that. I never really get jealous of my sisters. Well sometimes one of my sisters, because it always seems like she gets everything she wants. But you just have to be happy with yourself and what you have. And like dan said, if you start to get jealous of someone, even if your not friends with them, just be happy for them.
I don't really get that jealous of my friends or family. I know that good things happen to me to and something will happen to me that will make me feel the same as they feel. Around my siblings birthdays I kind of get a little jealous of how much attention they got, but I am also happy for them and I know the same thing will happen to me on my birthday. I think its easier to be jealous of someone you are not friends with or not as close with.
I don't think I become jealous very easily. The only thing would be my brother. He's in the paper like every other day for pole vaulting and my parents want me to do it in high school and well it would be kinda fun? But they are expecting me to be AMAZING at it, just like him. So I guess I'm jealous of his pole vaulting talent in that case. I just don't want to dissappoint my parents if I try it and like suck at it or something!! I think they would be pretty upset with me...or just dissappointed that I'm not like him.
Buuuut anyway I don't get jealous of my friends or other people very often. If they have something that I dont have, or that I want, then good for them. That's the way I look at it.
i dont get jealous easily at all. i dont know i just never become it. i dont know if that can be like genes passed down or anything, but i just dont really care what other people do. good for them. it doesnt matter to me that you beat me at something, because next time ill kick your butt. how bout dem apples.
I have to say that i do get jealous but im not like crazy jealous where i do mean things to people or anything. i just keep it to myself and try to get over it. Usually i just get jealous of all the gorgeous clothes that my sisters have and my one sister doesnt let me toutch them (ugh i hate it) so every now and then i will borrow something and then just put it back before she gets home..but if she finds out im litterally dead..scaryyyy. And i guess i sometimes get jealous over my friends when i say i want something soo bad and then they go and get it before i do..but thats mostly it. I just have to get over it.
i get jealous of other people sometimes too but you have to look a what you have that they don't. or just think that whatever is ment for them is mennt for them and whatever is yours they dont have.
I truly don't really get jealous. Yea people may have something that i don't that i may want but who really cares. I may have stuff that they don't that they want. I'm my own person and don't really care what others have because i'm fortunate with what i have! It's not worth it to get jealous over things. Just deal with it and whatever haha. Thats what i do and i have to admit i haven't been jealous of anyone after i told myself that. Just be happy with yourself and what you have to offer :)
I get jealous over peoples freedoms. When all my fiends go out their mopeds. I'm jsut left in the dust and it really bothers me. Like all I want to do is hangout like come on. Well thats about it. :)MATT(:
I don't think I get jealous very easily; except in sports. On travel, I've caught, like, six innings. Only part of one or two games. I don't like how I put so much effort in and the girls who goof off at practice get to play more than me. But other than sports, I don't really get jealous. ~Jules:)
I don't wanna say I get jelous but we all do to tell the truth. When I get good grades I am proud even if my friends get better grades than me. The thing that annoys me is when people get awarded fir good grades that they get all the time! If I get a good grade I get a good job....no award. Good job means so ethic but I hate when people brag about it. I'm just gonn say that the green eyed monste is really everyones close friend because we all get jelous.
I think i get jealous over certain things. But people like to try and make me jealous alot. But going with what jess said that we ALL! get jealous. weather or not you wanna admit it. there is always that one thing that really that sets peoples jealousy issues off. Be it getting a good grade, friends, relationships, etc. There is always one thing that people get jealous about. ~~michaela howell (:
Jess I really liked what you said about the green eyed monster is everyone s close friend because we all do get jealous wether we will admit it or not.
I augree with Matt. usuallly all my friends will help out one of us so we can accomplish something. I dont get jelous of my friends or family really. Definetly not my family because id say im the one who gets the most. Probably because my dad LOVEs sports and i play alot of them so it works out. The only time i get jealous of my friends is of there freedoms. They will be doing one thing that i cant and it bothers me, come to think of it, it tends to bother me whenever im not envolved in an activity that my friends are involved in and im not. Like a sporting Event.
i get jelous sometimes..most of the time i just shake it off..but i only get really jelous when they are showing off the object or talent or rubbing it in your face
i get jelous of peoples freedoms like matt said. people can just do what they want and i wish that were me, but if that were me i think id be on one totally different path then the one im on now.
I really don't get the jealous.I just wish that i was that person.Like i wish play a sport as well as them or get an A on the science test like them.So I don't think its really Jealously i think its more I'm happy for that person and u could learn from them. leah d.
Whats the point of a moped, id rather just save up for a real car, but thats just me.
I get jealous of how I percieve peoples lives. Like i have a really disfunctional family, where the hierarchy is my sister and everyone wants to impress her which i dont because i dont think a 26 year old villanova graduate, that lives at home, is naturally skinny, and is the prettiest one, is made to be the 'queen bee', and it sucks for me being me because my other fat 23 year old sister always makes fun of me being chubby to impress patty(26 year old). I'm jealous because I never say to her your fatter than me and your gonna die of lung cancer soon and since your being a bitch to me and ruin my life all the time im definitely not going to do anything to help you breathe a little easier when your having a heart attack.
Im just always jealous that everyone can speak their mind and whenever i say the truth im shot down for it, but i guess i dont want to be the hierarchy, because they seem like they have life all figured out but their the ones that everyone hates and want to step on to get to the top! Its just that other peoples lives look so easy and that mine is just a struggle everyday, that i have to duck my head down through the halway of my own home, and the only place where i can be free is school and i think thats why im just way to obnoxious, and weird, because im always reminded im gonna have to go home and feel like no one wants me that im a mistake that no ones every going to want, and that makes me feel that i have to live 10x more than everybody else in school.
I never tell anyone the whole story because i always think, with there so well pieced together puzzle life, that they would never understand, and i just wish that i could be the one that didnt understand the feelings of neglect, dependency, and self loathing. i know that no one has a 'perfect life' but it just always seems that theirs is just more perfect than mine, and thats what i wish. For the basenfelders to get it together and actually like each other, but its too late for that to ever occur...
IronMan
P.S.-Whos tony montana, like the person in our class, is it jake?
i dont really get jelous of any of my brothers. i get jelous of when my friends have good relationships with their mom and i dont. thats really all i can think of.
I dont really get jelous of my friends or family a whole lot like I start to but then I think about all the land and quads motorcycles tractors and all my abilities to do things that are really important to know. Like all these kid may think that they have all they need to know for life witch is being smart and being athletic, but I mean Im not saying I know it all but like growing up on a farm has taught me allot like I can fix allot on cars trucks tractors you name it and I can drive just about any thing besides like a plane or something of that matter, but the absolut 100% most important thing I have learned is with having the pen feilds to practice driving in the snow (really I am messing around) but I spin out and I learn how to save my self for when I need to when I get my licence and I will be less likely to get in an accedent in the snow, not saying it wolnt happen but the odds are lower. -Kyle Abrams
I don't ever really get jelous at people . I am never jelous at freinds or family. I just go with flow and accept who I am as a person. The only time I ever get a little jelous is when you see someone on TV win like a huge lottery and get like 150 million dollars.I get jelous cause I think of all the things I could do, people I could help , and what I would spend it on.
I dont really get jealous b/c i'm my own person. I dont want to be like anyone else and i understand people get jealous b/c of their looks, clothes etc... but i mean i dont get it! be yourself. u could care less about what other people think! -Katiee (:
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No i dont ever get jealous of my sister or friends. I am me and knowone can take that away from me. I get jealous of some of my own accomplishments and want to do better then i did before.
Tony Montana
Yes sometimes i become easily jealous of people. When people talk about what mopeds or dirt bikes there getting it makes me a little angry. A good way to get rid of jealousy is to think about what you have that others might be jealous of.Or you could just say "good for him" and not let it bother you.
Dan Hoffing
i become very jelious if somebody gets something before I do that i want. It almost bothers. And than the worst part is when they bragg/or are just saying it over and over to you. What i would try to get them to shut up or just try and appericate it with them
Mike
i must say that i dont get jealous very often. If one of my friends is really good at something that i'm not, i guess i get a little jealous of their ability to do that. I never really get jealous of my sisters. Well sometimes one of my sisters, because it always seems like she gets everything she wants. But you just have to be happy with yourself and what you have. And like dan said, if you start to get jealous of someone, even if your not friends with them, just be happy for them.
-h garthwaite
I don't really get that jealous of my friends or family. I know that good things happen to me to and something will happen to me that will make me feel the same as they feel. Around my siblings birthdays I kind of get a little jealous of how much attention they got, but I am also happy for them and I know the same thing will happen to me on my birthday. I think its easier to be jealous of someone you are not friends with or not as close with.
Leah Oattes :)
I don't think I become jealous very easily. The only thing would be my brother. He's in the paper like every other day for pole vaulting and my parents want me to do it in high school and well it would be kinda fun? But they are expecting me to be AMAZING at it, just like him. So I guess I'm jealous of his pole vaulting talent in that case. I just don't want to dissappoint my parents if I try it and like suck at it or something!! I think they would be pretty upset with me...or just dissappointed that I'm not like him.
Buuuut anyway I don't get jealous of my friends or other people very often. If they have something that I dont have, or that I want, then good for them. That's the way I look at it.
emilee(:
i dont get jealous easily at all. i dont know i just never become it. i dont know if that can be like genes passed down or anything, but i just dont really care what other people do. good for them. it doesnt matter to me that you beat me at something, because next time ill kick your butt. how bout dem apples.
dan o
I have to say that i do get jealous but im not like crazy jealous where i do mean things to people or anything. i just keep it to myself and try to get over it. Usually i just get jealous of all the gorgeous clothes that my sisters have and my one sister doesnt let me toutch them (ugh i hate it) so every now and then i will borrow something and then just put it back before she gets home..but if she finds out im litterally dead..scaryyyy.
And i guess i sometimes get jealous over my friends when i say i want something soo bad and then they go and get it before i do..but thats mostly it. I just have to get over it.
*bridget*
i get jealous of other people sometimes too but you have to look a what you have that they don't. or just think that whatever is ment for them is mennt for them and whatever is yours they dont have.
Craig Odem
I truly don't really get jealous. Yea people may have something that i don't that i may want but who really cares. I may have stuff that they don't that they want. I'm my own person and don't really care what others have because i'm fortunate with what i have! It's not worth it to get jealous over things. Just deal with it and whatever haha. Thats what i do and i have to admit i haven't been jealous of anyone after i told myself that. Just be happy with yourself and what you have to offer :)
~Jackie
I get jealous over peoples freedoms. When all my fiends go out their mopeds. I'm jsut left in the dust and it really bothers me. Like all I want to do is hangout like come on. Well thats about it. :)MATT(:
I don't think I get jealous very easily; except in sports. On travel, I've caught, like, six innings. Only part of one or two games. I don't like how I put so much effort in and the girls who goof off at practice get to play more than me.
But other than sports, I don't really get jealous.
~Jules:)
I don't wanna say I get jelous but we all do to tell the truth. When I get good grades I am proud even if my friends get better grades than me. The thing that annoys me is when people get awarded fir good grades that they get all the time! If I get a good grade I get a good job....no award. Good job means so ethic but I hate when people brag about it. I'm just gonn say that the green eyed monste is really everyones close friend because we all get jelous.
~Jessica Packard~
I think i get jealous over certain things. But people like to try and make me jealous alot. But going with what jess said that we ALL! get jealous. weather or not you wanna admit it. there is always that one thing that really that sets peoples jealousy issues off. Be it getting a good grade, friends, relationships, etc. There is always one thing that people get jealous about.
~~michaela howell (:
Jess I really liked what you said about the green eyed monster is everyone s close friend because we all do get jealous wether we will admit it or not.
Leah O.:)
I augree with Matt. usuallly all my friends will help out one of us so we can accomplish something. I dont get jelous of my friends or family really. Definetly not my family because id say im the one who gets the most. Probably because my dad LOVEs sports and i play alot of them so it works out. The only time i get jealous of my friends is of there freedoms. They will be doing one thing that i cant and it bothers me, come to think of it, it tends to bother me whenever im not envolved in an activity that my friends are involved in and im not. Like a sporting Event.
_ERIC
i get jelous sometimes..most of the time i just shake it off..but i only get really jelous when they are showing off the object or talent or rubbing it in your face
Maggs
i get jelous of peoples freedoms like matt said. people can just do what they want and i wish that were me, but if that were me i think id be on one totally different path then the one im on now.
austin
I really don't get the jealous.I just wish that i was that person.Like i wish play a sport as well as them or get an A on the science test like them.So I don't think its really Jealously i think its more I'm happy for that person and u could learn from them.
leah d.
Whats the point of a moped, id rather just save up for a real car, but thats just me.
I get jealous of how I percieve peoples lives. Like i have a really disfunctional family, where the hierarchy is my sister and everyone wants to impress her which i dont because i dont think a 26 year old villanova graduate, that lives at home, is naturally skinny, and is the prettiest one, is made to be the 'queen bee', and it sucks for me being me because my other fat 23 year old sister always makes fun of me being chubby to impress patty(26 year old). I'm jealous because I never say to her your fatter than me and your gonna die of lung cancer soon and since your being a bitch to me and ruin my life all the time im definitely not going to do anything to help you breathe a little easier when your having a heart attack.
Im just always jealous that everyone can speak their mind and whenever i say the truth im shot down for it, but i guess i dont want to be the hierarchy, because they seem like they have life all figured out but their the ones that everyone hates and want to step on to get to the top! Its just that other peoples lives look so easy and that mine is just a struggle everyday, that i have to duck my head down through the halway of my own home, and the only place where i can be free is school and i think thats why im just way to obnoxious, and weird, because im always reminded im gonna have to go home and feel like no one wants me that im a mistake that no ones every going to want, and that makes me feel that i have to live 10x more than everybody else in school.
I never tell anyone the whole story because i always think, with there so well pieced together puzzle life, that they would never understand, and i just wish that i could be the one that didnt understand the feelings of neglect, dependency, and self loathing. i know that no one has a 'perfect life' but it just always seems that theirs is just more perfect than mine, and thats what i wish. For the basenfelders to get it together and actually like each other, but its too late for that to ever occur...
IronMan
P.S.-Whos tony montana, like the person in our class, is it jake?
i dont really get jelous of any of my brothers. i get jelous of when my friends have good relationships with their mom and i dont. thats really all i can think of.
Haas
I dont really get jelous of my friends or family a whole lot like I start to but then I think about all the land and quads motorcycles tractors and all my abilities to do things that are really important to know. Like all these kid may think that they have all they need to know for life witch is being smart and being athletic, but I mean Im not saying I know it all but like growing up on a farm has taught me allot like I can fix allot on cars trucks tractors you name it and I can drive just about any thing besides like a plane or something of that matter, but the absolut 100% most important thing I have learned is with having the pen feilds to practice driving in the snow (really I am messing around) but I spin out and I learn how to save my self for when I need to when I get my licence and I will be less likely to get in an accedent in the snow, not saying it wolnt happen but the odds are lower.
-Kyle Abrams
I don't ever really get jelous at people . I am never jelous at freinds or family. I just go with flow and accept who I am as a person. The only time I ever get a little jelous is when you see someone on TV win like a huge lottery and get like 150 million dollars.I get jelous cause I think of all the things I could do, people I could help , and what I would spend it on.
Zach Anderson
I dont really get jealous b/c i'm my own person.
I dont want to be like anyone else and i understand people get jealous b/c of their looks, clothes etc... but i mean i dont get it! be yourself. u could care less about what other people think!
-Katiee (:
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