When is it okay to start having sex? Why do you think that?
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I think that the right time to have sex is when you are ready to have a child. So that means you are seteled in your own house, You and your husband/wife or boyfrined/girlfriend can be able to finacialy able to support a kid. You almost have to be ready for anything that could possibly happen. I really don't belive that there is an age that you should be able to have sex, it is when you and your spose can be able to be ready to take on what ever is thrown at you.
I dont beleive that there is a right age to start haveing sex i think it is a personal choice to have sex when you are ready not so much when you are ready to have a child like mikey said. -Kyle Abrams
In my opion when you think your ready..I think atleast 16 because then you(for the most part) can make the mature choice for yourself...and most people regret having it to early...thinking they should have waited because I couldent fit the number of people I know who have had abortions or think they should have waited to have sex but I think it is a personal choice for that person and that person only
I think you should be at least 15 or 16 to have sex, but thats only if you really truely like that person.If you don't then you should wait untill you are older.
I think the right time to have sex is after marriage. That way you and your husband/wife will probably be making enough money to have a child, like Mike said. You should be sure that you can be ready for any possibility that could happen.
I think the earliest age to would be 18 and up. Also you need to be able to take on any of the consiquences that come with it like a disease or a child. You should be financially fit and ready to have a baby like mike said. When the time comes to deside, you should be responsible enough to think it through first then if the answer is yes... Think it through again... And if it is still yes, think it through againnnn untill you have a 100% fixed mind on the idea. But if you have any doubts...I wouldn't do it. I know this from some shows I saw before. Young teens with babies are mostly upset that they are missing out on their high school life because they desided yes to soon... So in all I think when you are prepared to and thought it through and probally are out of high school would be yourbest choice. -jessica s. :)
I don't think there is a specific age when you are ready. Personally, by the kind of home I grew up in and my family, I say after marriage. However, some people don't want to be married. They just want to live their life in a one relationship...live with there boyfriend/girlfriend. So, how Mike said, when you are ready to have a child. I think that would be after high school, college, and when you get a job so you have enough money to live on to take care of yourself and your child.
the right time to have sex? i dont think there is an age you can put on it, but like mr g said it doesnt take a rocket scienctist to " do it." but it takes a real man to make love and the sex comes before love in some cases. and as kids we most likely cant take on the emotions of love. i believe some kids can. and then theres the couples that think they love eachother but they dont kow the meaning of love. but the right time to have sex is wen it feels right but you have to kow the consciquneces that come with it.
I think there is a right time have sex. That time would be when both people realize and understand all the possible concequenes that come with sex. And only then they should consider sex -Tyler
Okay first of all, Shawn, why would you have sex with someone if you don't like them? And Austin, yours is great; I agree with you 100%. I think it's a personal thing, when you're "ready" or it's okay to have sex. Everyone is different and there shouldn't be an age put on it. ~Jules :)
i think that the right time to have sex is when you a really in love with that girl or guy. you dont want to be running around having sex with people that you dont even know. so when you want to have sex i think it should be with that perfect girl or guy also like mike said another good time to have sex is when you are ready to have a child. because even if you do all the right things, like use a condom or take the pills, there is always that one sperm that is like michael phelps and is in it to win it that could get a girl pregnent. so when you want to have sex make sure it;s with that special someone and that you are prepared to take care of a child.
First off Austin, your comment's awesome. Second, im kinda disapointed not many people responded to this one because it's a good blog topic. I agree with Mike. I think the right time to have sex is when you are ready for everything that could possibly happen like getting pregnat or getting diseases. And like Dan said, if your gonna have sex you should be prepared to have a child, just in case. You never know what could happen. You should be physically and more importantly emotionally ready.
I think that you can't put an age limit on when you have sex. I think that it is a personal choice for the person(s) making that choice. And if they think its the right time then thats their choice. As for me personally, I am waiting until its a girl that I really really truly like. And if someone has had sex at this age, or at 15 or 16, they either regret or not, and that choice was theirs alone. That's probably why I get soo angry when a rumor starts about someone having sex and then that person gets called a slut or whore. It really infuriates me.
I think that the right time to have sex would be when you truely love someone and know that the concequences could actually happen, like everyone said. And if you do want to have sex with someone you have to realize that if you get pregnant than you might have to be with that person the rest of your life because you would have a kid and from the show 16 and Pregnant i can tell that a baby is alot of work for teenagers and if you choose to do adoption it would be a very emotional thing to do. And i know that myself and most teenagers are not ready for that.
the right time to have sex....? To me i think that the right time is when you are truly and deeply in love. And most of the time people who have sex. is just to have sex. its not like is actually means anything to them at all. People in general have a life time to have sex. Just be Kids you are only kids once. So enjoy it. Dont rush into anything. There is so many sexually transmitted diseases that you can get, and also pregnancy. On a personal level, my mom got pregnant when she was 16. And she said that having a baby at that age was one of the hardest things that she has ever had to do. And her whole life changed around. She was in school during the day, and at night she was working. And she had no time to spend with my the baby. So my grandma had to watch him. So she has talked to me, and told me all the stuff she has gone through. But just wait to have sex, be ready for anything that can happen. And be in a steady, healthy, and loving relationship, and also household. ~~michaela howell(:
I really don't think that you can put a labeled age on when to have sex. I think the right time to have sex is when you both truley love each other. Sometimes thats not the case but, I don't think most teenager can understand what it is to truley love someone and what love is the emotion its self. Their a few who can take it. And their are some hot shot guys who think they can love their girlfreind but they don't know what love is. Love and sex is something that I know is way over my head and way over a 14 year old. Like I said their is no labled age or manual on when to have sex. When the time feels right and you understand love and the what ifs about sex, then go ahead.
I think that you are old enough to have sex when you are in love. age doesnt matter (for the most part). I think that 17 is the youngest, reasonable, age. Love is the biggest thing. If you TRUELY believe that your relationship could survive anything, thats all that matters. Everyone is saying that you should wait until you are ready to have a kid. usually people dont wait until they are that old. Its a risk you need to be sure you are ready to take. If you are that in love and positive that you are ready, thats what its all about. Its not 100% age. Its more like 60% ~Jenna~
I think that the time for something like that woould take time and you should do it when you are ready, and in love. I no that that sounds like a story or fairy tail, love, well when you think you are ready and so is the person you feel for is ready that thats the time. You shouldnt rush to do something like that because its not a game. You could get hurt by the person who might brake up with you or get a serious disease or even if your a girl get prego. So its not something to mess around with its verrrry serious. So do it when your ready and thats the time!!! ~Theresa
in my opinion you cant pin point the right age for everyone, different people have different perspectives. some people want to dive right into it while others like you wait awhile so there isn't any right age its just the age that someone finally says i'm ready to do this and i'm ready to overcome a huge obstacle in life and start moving forward. some people have sex and just dont feel anything, they just do it to seem cool and seem better then everyone else but sex is something that you do when your crazy in love with someone, someone you know is there for you and someone you can depend on for whatever and wont just drop you after you after having sex with them. having sex at young ages like 14 and 15 is too early at the youngest 17 because at that age you can figure things out and make the right decisions that can change yours and someone else's life...
the right time to have sex is when the person your dating is absoloutley 100% ready too. if you pull a move to risky and big like having sex than you are going to get shut down by your bf/gf well that's what i would do. Also like mike said when you are ready to have kid and you have the worst case scenario planned out and you know how to solve it thats when you can have sex. -jessica packard-
Having sex isn't something you should do for popularity or for kicks. You should do it when your ready and if you love that girl or guy. So really, there's not a set time to have sex. But, I highly suggest doing it when your older. Sex is tied in with a lot of other things, like disease, rumors, emotional hurt or a baby. A teenager isn't ready for that kind of thing when they have their whole life ahead of them.
I think the right time to have sex is when you know what the consequences can be and be mature about it. I think around the age of 16 or 17 would be right. Like most others said there really is no set time for sex. And always be safe, where a condom. -ROB-
I think the right time is about a year after ur married. So u can plan to have a baby.When ur older ur more mature and consequences like Robert said. leah d
I think you are ready to have a baby when you get married. When your married you're financially ok obviously because you are living in your own house, well you should be ready financially if you wnt to have a child so you can support them. I think that if you have a kid too soon you'll have major consequences. Being a teenager and having a baby is kind of ruining your life! You can't always go hang with your friends when you want cause now u have a responsibility. I suggest waiting till your ready, but it is your choice.
i think there is no age to have sex its if you are able to fece what happens after like having a child. i think of it this way if you cant support your self and two people by YOURSELF it is not a good choice to have sex.
I think for different people sex can come at different times. I think you should be in love with the other person and be able to support a child.If it's meenless and you do it all the time then your degrading yourself and theres many consequences you will face because of the possibility of pregnancy and diseases.
i have been thinking about this since yesterday and i think when you are truly ready to have sex and you love the person you will know..the emotions will run deep but here is some lyrics from a song that sorta has to deal with it (runaway love by ludicris) Little Erica is eleven years old She's steady trying to figure why the world is so cold So she pops pills to get rid of all the pain Plus she's having sex with a boy who's sixteen Emotions run deep and she thinks she's in love So there's no protection he's using no glove Never thinking 'bout the consequences of her actions Living for today and not tomorrow's satisfaction The days go by and her belly gets big The father bails out he ain't ready for a kid Knowing her mama will blow it all outta proportion Plus she lives poor so no money for abortion Erica is stuck up in the world on her own Forced to think that hell is a place called home Nothing else to do but get her clothes and pack She say she's about to run away and never come back.
in my opion there is such thing as to early to have sex because what one of the partners thing is love the other could just see as a good time even though there is the risks of pregnecy, stds, lifes ruined in the process from rumors and gossip and people just talking in general because as mr g said it could go from they were kissing behind wawa to they were having full on sex behind wawa and everything gets blown way out of poportions...but i think 14 is too young for sex maybe 16 is the earliest but i think 18 because then you can deal with all of problems that may come with that one time of unprotected or it broke or maybe one of you has a unknown std then you have to deal with a std and if something happens she could get pregnant and this age is just too young to deal with the emotions and the problems that could come with it
i really like austins. and i really like johns. i dont think that you can put an age on this. when your ready, you'll know. honestly i dont wanna have sex until after im married because if i had sex now, or even in high school, i dont think i could handle all of the emotions. Also i dont think i could live with myself, because at this age i dont love anyone.
no one put their name on the one above, and i really like johns post, i like that song. But i think that you cant put an age on this because when you know your partner is really into you and not in it to slap his buddies hands and tell everyone how was it. I think that if your in a relationship with someone and your relationship is founded on sexting and texts then that might not be the person you might want to do the deed with. You need to know the person raw and know their feelings and how they react to situations. And when you both see eachother raw and with all the phasade disappears thats when you know that you are ment to be together, then maybe you can have sex only if your ready.
i completely agree with megan, she knows what shes talking about haha. when your ready, you'll know... you shouldn't question yourself. when a guy is in it for the sex and what not, he's obviously not the one. when megan says "You need to know the person raw and know their feelings and how they react to situations." that is the most important thing you should know about your partner. because say you got into some problems, such as getting pregnant... you would want that person to stay with you and not run scared.
thanks autumn and i think most guys wouldent love someone to have sex because "love could be sex but sex doesnt always mean love" because if you love someone you may have sex but you dont have to love someone to have sex with them and i think that most guys would say yes to any girl who got on top of him if she was the least bit atractive...but i think that we should all wait until we are older...
I think sex is okay when both people are comfertable with it, and you talk about it. I know some people may think its awkward to talk about it but it's the only way you would know if both of you are ready insted of just getting caught up in the moment of it. Honestly, I feel there is no set age. Girls tend to want it one way though. They tend to want to be in love and they want all these things, but it all depends on how they respect themselves and carry out there word. K.Siggy
37 comments:
I think that the right time to have sex is when you are ready to have a child. So that means you are seteled in your own house, You and your husband/wife or boyfrined/girlfriend can be able to finacialy able to support a kid. You almost have to be ready for anything that could possibly happen. I really don't belive that there is an age that you should be able to have sex, it is when you and your spose can be able to be ready to take on what ever is thrown at you.
Michael Knox
I dont beleive that there is a right age to start haveing sex i think it is a personal choice to have sex when you are ready not so much when you are ready to have a child like mikey said.
-Kyle Abrams
In my opion when you think your ready..I think atleast 16 because then you(for the most part) can make the mature choice for yourself...and most people regret having it to early...thinking they should have waited because I couldent fit the number of people I know who have had abortions or think they should have waited to have sex but I think it is a personal choice for that person and that person only
(MAGGS)
I think you should be at least 15 or 16 to have sex, but thats only if you really truely like that person.If you don't then you should wait untill you are older.
Miller
I think the right time to have sex is after marriage. That way you and your husband/wife will probably be making enough money to have a child, like Mike said. You should be sure that you can be ready for any possibility that could happen.
-Ben
I think the earliest age to would be 18 and up. Also you need to be able to take on any of the consiquences that come with it like a disease or a child. You should be financially fit and ready to have a baby like mike said. When the time comes to deside, you should be responsible enough to think it through first then if the answer is yes... Think it through again... And if it is still yes, think it through againnnn untill you have a 100% fixed mind on the idea. But if you have any doubts...I wouldn't do it. I know this from some shows I saw before. Young teens with babies are mostly upset that they are missing out on their high school life because they desided yes to soon... So in all I think when you are prepared to and thought it through and probally are out of high school would be yourbest choice.
-jessica s. :)
I don't think there is a specific age when you are ready. Personally, by the kind of home I grew up in and my family, I say after marriage. However, some people don't want to be married. They just want to live their life in a one relationship...live with there boyfriend/girlfriend. So, how Mike said, when you are ready to have a child. I think that would be after high school, college, and when you get a job so you have enough money to live on to take care of yourself and your child.
~Hayley
the right time to have sex? i dont think there is an age you can put on it, but like mr g said it doesnt take a rocket scienctist to " do it." but it takes a real man to make love and the sex comes before love in some cases. and as kids we most likely cant take on the emotions of love. i believe some kids can. and then theres the couples that think they love eachother but they dont kow the meaning of love. but the right time to have sex is wen it feels right but you have to kow the consciquneces that come with it.
austin
I think there is a right time have sex. That time would be when both people realize and understand all the possible concequenes that come with sex. And only then they should consider sex
-Tyler
Okay first of all, Shawn, why would you have sex with someone if you don't like them? And Austin, yours is great; I agree with you 100%.
I think it's a personal thing, when you're "ready" or it's okay to have sex. Everyone is different and there shouldn't be an age put on it.
~Jules :)
i think that the right time to have sex is when you a really in love with that girl or guy. you dont want to be running around having sex with people that you dont even know. so when you want to have sex i think it should be with that perfect girl or guy
also like mike said another good time to have sex is when you are ready to have a child. because even if you do all the right things, like use a condom or take the pills, there is always that one sperm that is like michael phelps and is in it to win it that could get a girl pregnent. so when you want to have sex make sure it;s with that special someone and that you are prepared to take care of a child.
dan o
First off Austin, your comment's awesome. Second, im kinda disapointed not many people responded to this one because it's a good blog topic. I agree with Mike. I think the right time to have sex is when you are ready for everything that could possibly happen like getting pregnat or getting diseases. And like Dan said, if your gonna have sex you should be prepared to have a child, just in case. You never know what could happen. You should be physically and more importantly emotionally ready.
emilee(:
and i reaalllyyy really like the thought of the dayy!
emilee(:
I think that you can't put an age limit on when you have sex. I think that it is a personal choice for the person(s) making that choice. And if they think its the right time then thats their choice. As for me personally, I am waiting until its a girl that I really really truly like. And if someone has had sex at this age, or at 15 or 16, they either regret or not, and that choice was theirs alone. That's probably why I get soo angry when a rumor starts about someone having sex and then that person gets called a slut or whore. It really infuriates me.
Jon Hanes
Jon your comment is really good i agree!
emilee(:
I think that the right time to have sex would be when you truely love someone and know that the concequences could actually happen, like everyone said. And if you do want to have sex with someone you have to realize that if you get pregnant than you might have to be with that person the rest of your life because you would have a kid and from the show 16 and Pregnant i can tell that a baby is alot of work for teenagers and if you choose to do adoption it would be a very emotional thing to do. And i know that myself and most teenagers are not ready for that.
*bridget*
Thanks emilee! I like what you said also.
Jon Hanes
the right time to have sex....? To me i think that the right time is when you are truly and deeply in love. And most of the time people who have sex. is just to have sex. its not like is actually means anything to them at all. People in general have a life time to have sex. Just be Kids you are only kids once. So enjoy it. Dont rush into anything. There is so many sexually transmitted diseases that you can get, and also pregnancy. On a personal level, my mom got pregnant when she was 16. And she said that having a baby at that age was one of the hardest things that she has ever had to do. And her whole life changed around. She was in school during the day, and at night she was working. And she had no time to spend with my the baby. So my grandma had to watch him. So she has talked to me, and told me all the stuff she has gone through. But just wait to have sex, be ready for anything that can happen. And be in a steady, healthy, and loving relationship, and also household.
~~michaela howell(:
I really don't think that you can put a labeled age on when to have sex. I think the right time to have sex is when you both truley love each other. Sometimes thats not the case but, I don't think most teenager can understand what it is to truley love someone and what love is the emotion its self. Their a few who can take it. And their are some hot shot guys who think they can love their girlfreind but they don't know what love is. Love and sex is something that I know is way over my head and way over a 14 year old. Like I said their is no labled age or manual on when to have sex. When the time feels right and you understand love and the what ifs about sex, then go ahead.
Zach Anderson
zach i completely agree with what you said.
~~michaela howell(:
I think that you are old enough to have sex when you are in love. age doesnt matter (for the most part). I think that 17 is the youngest, reasonable, age. Love is the biggest thing. If you TRUELY believe that your relationship could survive anything, thats all that matters. Everyone is saying that you should wait until you are ready to have a kid. usually people dont wait until they are that old. Its a risk you need to be sure you are ready to take. If you are that in love and positive that you are ready, thats what its all about. Its not 100% age. Its more like 60%
~Jenna~
I think that the time for something like that woould take time and you should do it when you are ready, and in love. I no that that sounds like a story or fairy tail, love, well when you think you are ready and so is the person you feel for is ready that thats the time. You shouldnt rush to do something like that because its not a game. You could get hurt by the person who might brake up with you or get a serious disease or even if your a girl get prego. So its not something to mess around with its verrrry serious. So do it when your ready and thats the time!!!
~Theresa
in my opinion you cant pin point the right age for everyone, different people have different perspectives. some people want to dive right into it while others like you wait awhile so there isn't any right age its just the age that someone finally says i'm ready to do this and i'm ready to overcome a huge obstacle in life and start moving forward. some people have sex and just dont feel anything, they just do it to seem cool and seem better then everyone else but sex is something that you do when your crazy in love with someone, someone you know is there for you and someone you can depend on for whatever and wont just drop you after you after having sex with them. having sex at young ages like 14 and 15 is too early at the youngest 17 because at that age you can figure things out and make the right decisions that can change yours and someone else's life...
Sean Maloney
the right time to have sex is when the person your dating is absoloutley 100% ready too. if you pull a move to risky and big like having sex than you are going to get shut down by your bf/gf well that's what i would do. Also like mike said when you are ready to have kid and you have the worst case scenario planned out and you know how to solve it thats when you can have sex.
-jessica packard-
Having sex isn't something you should do for popularity or for kicks. You should do it when your ready and if you love that girl or guy. So really, there's not a set time to have sex. But, I highly suggest doing it when your older. Sex is tied in with a lot of other things, like disease, rumors, emotional hurt or a baby. A teenager isn't ready for that kind of thing when they have their whole life ahead of them.
-Alexis(:
I think the right time to have sex is when you know what the consequences can be and be mature about it. I think around the age of 16 or 17 would be right. Like most others said there really is no set time for sex. And always be safe, where a condom.
-ROB-
I think the right time is about a year after ur married. So u can plan to have a baby.When ur older ur more mature and consequences like Robert said.
leah d
I think you are ready to have a baby when you get married. When your married you're financially ok obviously because you are living in your own house, well you should be ready financially if you wnt to have a child so you can support them. I think that if you have a kid too soon you'll have major consequences. Being a teenager and having a baby is kind of ruining your life! You can't always go hang with your friends when you want cause now u have a responsibility. I suggest waiting till your ready, but it is your choice.
~Jackie~
i think there is no age to have sex its if you are able to fece what happens after like having a child. i think of it this way if you cant support your self and two people by YOURSELF it is not a good choice to have sex.
Craig O.
I think for different people sex can come at different times. I think you should be in love with the other person and be able to support a child.If it's meenless and you do it all the time then your degrading yourself and theres many consequences you will face because of the possibility of pregnancy and diseases.
Leah O. :)
i have been thinking about this since yesterday and i think when you are truly ready to have sex and you love the person you will know..the emotions will run deep but here is some lyrics from a song that sorta has to deal with it (runaway love by ludicris)
Little Erica is eleven years old
She's steady trying to figure why the world is so cold
So she pops pills to get rid of all the pain
Plus she's having sex with a boy who's sixteen
Emotions run deep and she thinks she's in love
So there's no protection he's using no glove
Never thinking 'bout the consequences of her actions
Living for today and not tomorrow's satisfaction
The days go by and her belly gets big
The father bails out he ain't ready for a kid
Knowing her mama will blow it all outta proportion
Plus she lives poor so no money for abortion
Erica is stuck up in the world on her own
Forced to think that hell is a place called home
Nothing else to do but get her clothes and pack
She say she's about to run away and never come back.
in my opion there is such thing as to early to have sex because what one of the partners thing is love the other could just see as a good time even though there is the risks of pregnecy, stds, lifes ruined in the process from rumors and gossip and people just talking in general because as mr g said it could go from they were kissing behind wawa to they were having full on sex behind wawa and everything gets blown way out of poportions...but i think 14 is too young for sex maybe 16 is the earliest but i think 18 because then you can deal with all of problems that may come with that one time of unprotected or it broke or maybe one of you has a unknown std then you have to deal with a std and if something happens she could get pregnant and this age is just too young to deal with the emotions and the problems that could come with it
(MAGGS)
i really like austins. and i really like johns. i dont think that you can put an age on this. when your ready, you'll know. honestly i dont wanna have sex until after im married because if i had sex now, or even in high school, i dont think i could handle all of the emotions. Also i dont think i could live with myself, because at this age i dont love anyone.
no one put their name on the one above, and i really like johns post, i like that song. But i think that you cant put an age on this because when you know your partner is really into you and not in it to slap his buddies hands and tell everyone how was it. I think that if your in a relationship with someone and your relationship is founded on sexting and texts then that might not be the person you might want to do the deed with. You need to know the person raw and know their feelings and how they react to situations. And when you both see eachother raw and with all the phasade disappears thats when you know that you are ment to be together, then maybe you can have sex only if your ready.
IronMan
i completely agree with megan, she knows what shes talking about haha. when your ready, you'll know... you shouldn't question yourself. when a guy is in it for the sex and what not, he's obviously not the one. when megan says "You need to know the person raw and know their feelings and how they react to situations." that is the most important thing you should know about your partner. because say you got into some problems, such as getting pregnant... you would want that person to stay with you and not run scared.
-alexis(:
the one without a name is mine... sorry :)
~Autumn <3
thanks autumn and i think most guys wouldent love someone to have sex because "love could be sex but sex doesnt always mean love" because if you love someone you may have sex but you dont have to love someone to have sex with them and i think that most guys would say yes to any girl who got on top of him if she was the least bit atractive...but i think that we should all wait until we are older...
MAGGS
I think sex is okay when both people are comfertable with it, and you talk about it. I know some people may think its awkward to talk about it but it's the only way you would know if both of you are ready insted of just getting caught up in the moment of it. Honestly, I feel there is no set age. Girls tend to want it one way though. They tend to want to be in love and they want all these things, but it all depends on how they respect themselves and carry out there word.
K.Siggy
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