How does it make you feel when people brag about having sex? Does it make you respect them more? Does it make them more cool? Why do you feel that way? Why do you think some people brag about having sex?
Note: What was your opinion of Mrs. Delaney's "talk"? Did she answer your questions? Is there anything you wanted to ask, but never got the chance?
23 comments:
When people brag about having sex it makes them seem imiture and crude. You shouldn't being having sex at this age and why go talk about it even if you did. It makes my respect for the person go way down because you are belittleing not only yourself but your partner. If people have sex I don't judge them for it only if they go out and start talking about it bragging and stuff. I guess I feel this way because it could be a tough situation for them, and people make mistakes. I thought Mrs. Delaneys talk was useful to the grade because she wasn't afraid of what people thought and she wanted to explain in the best way she could and tell about diseases and even death that can occur. I did not ask any questions but didn't really want to.
Leah O.:)FiRsT bLoG!!
I haven't had anyone brag about having sex. But if someone did, I woulddnt like it. They think they are all big and bad becuase they had sex, and really it makes them look like an a hole. That's a personal thing. You don't tell people you did that. What if the girl you had sex with didn't want people to know and your going around saying I HAD SEX!!! Everyone then says with who? And you tell them.
Zach Wood
I think when people brag about sex i think that they think that they seem cool and mature. Like we are 14-15 or whatever and if you think your cool by having sex, let me face you with the reality, that your not. I hate it when people come to me and say that they had sex, and yes it happened, and they would make fun of me because when i was in that group i was the only one who never really did anything like that, and they always wanted to make me feel like i was missing out on some big party, or something. They always acted like they were so mature now because they had sex with some guy that they would never talk to again...it just added unecessary drama and i thought it was so stupid whenever they would list all the people they had sex with or did anything with. I made them look self absorbed and stupid.
IronMan
i think no matter whatever anyone says between guys no matter how fudged up this is the guys "rep" goes up and the girl gets made fun of for being a whore just because she had sex..i dont think people should have sex at this age...but if somebody thinks they are ready..im not making the choice for them..but most of the time the girl doesnt go around bragging...but the guy its like OMG I JUST HIT MANHOOD when the truth is you just took something from a girl who probably felt forced in some way or another..and it probably wont be that day or th day after..but eventually she will regret it..because most guys its "hit it and leave it" which i find to be very messed up...but i have no respect for guys(or girls) who go around bragging because how do you think it makes the partner who you shared it with feels if you go around telling everyone and most of the time...in the long run..the girl will go for the non butthole guy who hasent had sex with a bunch of girls and never boasted about it because he has the respect women deserve at all times..
MAGGS
(P.S. sorry i was being very upfront and if my language offended anyone..im sorry)
I don't think it makes anyone cool when they brag about having sex. It's a personal thing and not something that should be openly disscussed with everyone. It makes me disrespect people more when the brag about having sex. When people brag about having sex, they think that they look cool and mature and everything, but still, sex is personal.
Ms. Delany's talk was wierd.
~Jules:)
i think it's just stupid if people brag about having sex. i dont think sex if like a possesion that you can brag about. like if someone bought the best video game for xbox yeah sure you can brag about that. or if you are the best at a sport of a game you can brag about that yeah no problem. but if you come to school and start bragging about sex? oh wow, get a life. we in freaking 8th grade for crying out loud. who gives a rats ass on who had sex. yeah guys i know we all want to have sex, but even if you finally do i dont understand what makes you better than everybody else. and i certainly dont understand why you have the right to brag about it and put even more pressure on other people to have sex.'
i think mrs delaney did a good job with the "talk" we had. i didnt have questions to ask. but i do think that she answered the questions that were asked well.
dan o
if someone were bragging about sex, it wouldnt make me respect them more, it would make me respect them wayy less! thats is so sick to be doing that like in high school or whatever. i think people brag about having sex because they think "oh well im ahead of the game now" or like "ohh im soo cool". i dont think its cool to have sex. not at all, one bit. eww.
Mrs. Dealneys talk was weird... she kept saying "oh my god im sweating so much". she was more akward then we were. loll.
~Autumn <33
its not right your disrespecting your girl or the girl that youve had sex with and thats not right. and people that brag about there sexual expreicences keep it to yourself unless you get asked you dont just go telling thats wrong.
austin
oh yeah and girls...guys have big mouths..we will end up telling someone and everyone will find out...as mr g says we are dumb as posts..so just dont do anything and the guy wont have anything to brag about it
and mrs delany was basically going over something mr b could have gone over just as easy without making it sooo awkward i just think she thought eighth graders know alot less about the matter then we do..
MAGGS
When someone tells me that they had sex I say wow dude thats awesome and depending on who they did it with I might get really jealous and say stuff like wow I should have been at that party and like yo next time invite me. :)MATT(:
(and that ain't no bs. Every guy would say that. If they say otherwise they'd be lieing)
when people brag about havingn sex i think it is dumb becaause if you have nothing beter to do than talk about stuff that nobody else should have thier buuisness in is showing you arnt trustworthy or mature and are not ready to be a man or woman if you jhave to brag about sex to feel that people will respect you. you have president obama who is one of the most respected person thatbi bknow of and he dosent brag about hsving sex.
Craig O
I haven't heard anyone brag about or even say they had sex. I've heard rumors though, but you can't always know if their true or not, so I usually just ignore them. But if someone did brag about it, I would sort of loose respect for them because 1: bragging is rude and 2: at this age you shouldn’t even be doing that, you should still be a kid and not in a hurry to grow up. I think people would brag about it to make themselves feel cooler, but it really doesn’t do that. I think what Mrs. Delaney taught in class was good for the grade to know because even though it is awkward talking about it all, it’s stuff you need to know and can benefit from knowing.
-jessica s :)
When people brag about having sex i find them quite irresponsible.... i mean who wants to hear who you do stuff with? I know i don't need to hear that. Most likely who ever you had sex with doesn't want others knowing so why would you disrespect their choice of not telling and go behind their back and tell everything to all your friends?! I don't get why guys always have to tell their friends what they did with a girl... i mean girls don't go an tell their friends that stuff. And the other thing is that i don't think there are many girls who want other guys to know what they did with this guy. It definetely does not make me want to respect them more. It shows how disrespectful they are and how they don't really care about their girlfriend/boyfriend. It doesn't make them cooler in my opinion... maybe in a guys opinion, but i don't think most girls find it cool.
I don't really know why some people brag about having sex? Does it make them cooler, does it make them more popular? I don't know... if someone knows the answer to that let me know (: I don't know what you get out of saying guess what i had sex with a girl/boy? I mean maybe guys find it cool when other guys have sex, but with girls i think you are less respected if you do that.
And my opinion on Mrs. Delaney's "talk" is that it was a tad awkward... and of course the immuchore guys made it much worse. And she didn't really answer that many questions that maybe should've been answered... i don't really know what the questions are that she should've answered but i know she answered all of the stuff we already knew. So many people asked questions that were immuchore and stupid, and maybe there weren't to many "realistic" questions that she could answer. So i don't blame it on her really, but even if she didn't get the questions she wanted to talk about she could've talked about them anyway. And there's nothing i really wanted to ask so yea
~JACKIE
p.s. Ms. Carr when i got home my mom told me it was because when she told me to go to bed she found out i was texting on my ipod because my sister told and she wanted to see if i knew what i did and that's why she ignored me because she noticed i was like nervous about it so she thought i was going to admit something else that she didn't know. But she's talking to me now but she said i will not get my phone or my ipod back for a while because i didn't listen to her again... but she apologized :)
John,
I'm glad that your one guy who is honest about it and says that guys do have big mouths and will tell. I'm glad you were honest about that :)
~JACKIE
I think that people who brag about having sex are the people who just had sex with the other peson just to "get some". They dont really care about the person they were with. I think that is just sick because you should have sex with someone when you really love them and are always there for them. For the people who brag about having sex think that theyre cool for having sex but really theyre just immature.
*bridget*
p.s. i think that mrs delaneys talk was awkwardddddd.
Bridget, I agree with you all the way.I wasnt going to do the blog because I didnt know how to word it, but you said it perfectly
-Tyler
I dont think that every guy would go 'wow dude thats cool' like what matt said. Not all guys are like that, but i know what guys would do that and they pretty much all hang out with you, no offense. Like Shawn miller wouldnt go up to Nick adkins and said i had sex with someone and i bet nick's reaction would be to turn away, but if you told nick haas that you, matt, had sex he probably would say thats cool because i know how nick is, but not everyone is like you and your friends.
Megan Basenfelder
p.s. had to say it, im really depressed with how disrespectful guy are
Alrighty looky here... when people brag about having sex I automatically think 'Well aren't you big and bad? Big woop'. For girls it's different, it's not that amazing to here someone had sex... it just sorta goes over our head. Well, at least for me that's how it is... I don't really care about their sex life. What do you want? A pat on the back? For guys on the other hand, it's like their "quest" is over as Mr.G would say. Get this straight guys... girls are gonna want to wait, so don't be suprised to get the back hand if you keep bothering them about it. You'll be cool with the guys I guess, but your not gonna have sex with another girl anytime soon. Things spread fast and if it goes around to all girls that all you want is sex then your chance with those girls just went the drain. Lets weigh that out... having sex and having a bad rep with the ladies, or waiting until they're ready and being known as the perfect guy. Hmmmm... tough oneeee.
-Aleeeeexiiiisss(:
Hahahahahaahahha JESS PACKARD IS MY IDOL! She knows exactly what she's talking abouuut! Every guy should read hers and think twice before you post their commenttt!
-Aleeeeeeeeeeeeeeexis(:
when i look at this i see it very different then others. like matt said guys do like to brag about and guys thinks its great they just hit manhood. but what sucks that girl has that to live with and some people will never let it go calling slut,whore,bitch which is gonna to make that girl regret it. what i think about guys who say "hit it then quit it" that is totally disrespectful. guys al think its fine and great but wait until you come acrossed the girls who will never gonna want to be nar you cuz of your "rep" of having sex girl after girl. braggging about it may seem great for guys but if you care about that girl you did it with show yourself some dignity and give the female respect
jAkE
I think bragging about having sex with a girl is completely disrespectful. What you do with your girlfriend or boyfriend is entirely between the two of you. And then to brag about it. As a sassy women would say on tv, "Oh no you didn't".
And with mrs.Delanys talk i think she did a good job answering as many questions as she could. i think that its the parents job too answer these questions though.And of course it was awkward, i mean what did people expect.
-Dan h.
Matt your so right like all guys no matter who you are see things like that. like i hate when people bragg when they had sex like i dont cuz its wrong to like just try to impress people with that like i usually like want say anything. like jules said its something persinal especially for girls.
Nick Haas
ha i wount say anything sorry!
Haas
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